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What a difference a word can make: How a single word can change your conversation


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British psychologist Elizabeth Stokoe studies the patterns in talk that most of us don’t even notice. She explains how her research can be used to train people to interact more effectively.

People spend a good deal of time talking to one another, and in general we do it pretty well. We might feel excited, angry, embarrassed, or — if we’re lucky — loved, in the course of our daily conversations. So is there any benefit to thinking about a science of talk? Can we really gain anything from scientific analysis of something we “just do”?

I believe we can, and I’ve spent the last 20 years studying real talk from real people talking to each other in real time. And while the linguist Noam Chomsky once described conversation as a “disorderly phenomenon,” I can tell you that it’s no such thing. Conversation is highly systematic and organized … and it tells…

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Rocks Are The Silent Historians


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Since I was two years old I have been a proud member the word’s most honoured and rarefied profession; that of Rock Collector.

When the United States of America decided to expand the horizons and capabilities of the human species it chose rock collectors to lead the way.

Don’t believe me?

Perhaps you’ll believe my fellow pilot and rock collector Neil Armstrong.

Here’s a photograph of Neil Armstrong doing what we do best; collecting rocks and looking cool doing it!

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It is incredibly moving and sobering to know that when you are holding a rock in your hand you are holding something that has existed for billions of years before you were born and will exist for billions of years after you have gone.

When you hold a rock in your hand you are connecting yourself to both the past and the future.

Rocks are the silent historians.

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We live in an imperfect world…


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Los Desastres de la Guerra is a set of 80 aqua... Los Desastres de la Guerra is a set of 80 aquatint prints created by Francisco Goya in the 1810s. Plate 9: No quieren. (They do not want to. ) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

If wishing made something so, if desire by itself granted its object, then no hope, no desire, no wish, no prayer to a deity would ever go unfulfilled, and words for ‘disappointment’ or ‘rejection’ wouldn’t exist in the vocabulary of any language, for no love would be unrequited, and no personal nor conspiratorial plans would ever fail.

Ever.

All would be perfect in the world. Everything would run smoothly, just like we want it to. But that is not what we see. It does not appear, as far as any real evidence shows, that there is anyone at all fully running or orchestrating this whole mess we call a world. Disappointment is frequent, faith unrewarded, our hopes often…

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